I am so pissed off. I live at home with my mother and brother until i can get up the courage to live on my own (after a break in).

I am pissed off because of my mothers partner. i am really nice to him all the time, i ask him how he is and say hello.i laugh at his jokes that arent condescending. what more can i do?anyway that didnt stop him this evening from saying something pretty rude to me. he makes these jokes (he calls them) that are really hurtful!

well my family has bought a house up north and are moving there this year with my mothers partner. it is also supposed to be that my mother buys a house each for my sister and i (my older brother and his family have already had a house bought for them and my younger brother who is house bound and mentally ill owns a share in the house  my mum and her partner bought. he has his own living room and a huge workshop has been built for him). this is all from inheritance and my very rich millionaire american family. so i have been wishing for my own place and dreaming about a safe place to call my own for quite a while. 

so my mum said this evening that i could move in with her and everyone up north until i find my own place or feel ready to live alone.

i said "thats great"

and her partner jim said " we can put a tent out back for you to live in. you want your own place to live in dont you. yeah Tessa would love her own (sarcastically) place to live in to call home. wouldnt you?"

i just said "yes"

my mother said "what are you going to say to him?" i said "nothing"

because i really dont want to get into that.

anyways while i was writing this a few hours ago my mother knocked at my door and said shed kicked him out. she gave him and ultimatum: either apologize to Tessa (me) or get out. so he just left. she also said that shes not allowing him back into the house until hes apologized to me.

he has such a negative vibe going on. although i kind of like him. i dont know. any ideas of what i should say to him when and if he apologizes or if i just see him?

i dont know what to say...